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How hoops function


Staff member
Sep 6, 2019
You'll probably see a lot of stuff here you've never seen before.

One thing you need to learn is how hoops function. Because when we put her through the right hoops, we can make her qualify and put her in a frame where

1. She's putting in more effort
2. She's trying to prove herself to you
3. She's chasing you

.... And 4: every time she jumps through a hoop, we gain compliance momentum!

Below are some examples of hoops. For sake of simplicity, I've put them into three different categories.

Level one requires the least compliance for her to answer, and level three requires the most.

I'm gonna add sexual hoops later but here are a few examples to give you an idea.

😈 Level one - Small hoops + Logistical questions 😈

- Where are you from
- What do you do
- Logistical questions
Where in [x city] do you live?
Who are you here with?
What are you doing later tonight?
What are you doing tomorrow?
How are you getting home?

😈 Level 2. Medium hoops 😈

- Craziest thing ever did
- How adventurous are you
- What kind of traveling have you done?
- What job would you be absolutely terrible at?
- What would your perfect Saturday be like?
- What easy thing do you most often screw up?
- What's the strangest habit you have?
- How much do you judge a person by their appearance?

😈Level 3. Big hoops 😈

- What was your worst day ever?
- What was your best day ever?
- Which person fucked you over the most?
- Have you ever been cheated on?'
- What or who would you sacrifice your life for?
- What single event has had the biggest impact on who you are?
- What keeps you up at night?
- What movie made you cry the most?
- What was one of the happiest moments of your childhood?
- What was the worst date you've ever been on?
- What belief do you have that most people disagree with?
- What dumb thing did you believe for a really long time?
- What's the best and worst part of you personality?
- What's your relationship like with you mom/dad

If you want to roleplay with your wing (you can practice this on your fkn mom if you want), it could look like this:

Start with Level 1 hoops, and work your way to Level 3. For the sake of this roleplay, you can reply whatever you want for the hoops your partner gives you.

What’s important is that you understand the concept of rewarding, punishing, and lowering compliance threshold.

If your “target” doesn’t comply = punish (neg, tease, ignore) + give a smaller hoop (lower compliance threshold)

Hoop: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Response: I’m not gonna tell you that [non-compliance]

Punish: Ah you’re one of those girls who don’t like fun!

LCT: Come on, you must’ve done SOMETHING fun. Just tell me something at least a little bit crazy you’ve done.

If your “target” complies = reward (compliment, physical escalation) + give another hoop.

Hoop: What’s the worst part of your personality?

Response: I think I’m a very nice girl blablabla [compliance]

Reward: That’s awesome *pull her in closer* I love nice girls

Hoop: What’s your relationship like with your dad?