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Objection 2


Staff member
Sep 6, 2019
Girl invites me over. When I sexualize, she tells me that she simply invited me over to see what I was like. She doesn't sleep with guys on the first night because she wants to feel relaxed with the other person.

"I'm not gonna sleep with you"

All that shit

Here's how I reframed, word for word:

"That's actually amazing that you feel like that. I think it's great that we're on the same page. It's really important for me to feel that there's chemistry before I sleep with a girl. I need to be 100% sure that I feel sexual attraction towards her. There has to be a lot of it. I don't have time for mediocre sex anymore"

You should only say this when there's an actual objection. Don't say it for the sake of saying it.